What Your Handshake Says about You!

June 6, 2008

 

Nobody likes a limp handshake, but you probably don’t realize just how much you communicate through your hands, says Jacqueline Whitmore, author of ‘Business Class: Etiquette Essentials for Success at Work.’ Here’s one handshake to use, one to be careful of, and three to avoid.

 

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Handshake TestIllustration: Erik Larsen

1. The Fail-Safe

Connect the web between your index finger and thumb firmly with the other person’s and pump two or three times. This is confident and always appropriate.

 

Handshake TestIllustration: Erik Larsen

2. The Rubber Glove

While shaking hands, cover the other person’s hand with your left hand. A favorite of politicians and clergy, this should be used only with someone you know well.

 

Handshake TestIllustration: Erik Larsen

3. The Queen’s Handshake

Offering just your fingertips, rather than your palm, indicates a sense of superiority.

 

Handshake TestIllustration: Erik Larsen

4. The Dead Fish

A limp handshake conveys weakness and a lack of self-confidence.

 

Handshake TestIllustration: Erik Larsen

5. The Terminator

Turning the grip so your hand is on top is a sign of aggression.

Things You Should Do

Be Friendly You should always be ready to initiate a handshake, demonstrating your eagerness to meet the person. Although etiquette rules once dictated that a man should wait for a woman to offer her hand, that’s no longer the case.

Show Respect Make sure you’re standing when you shake hello or goodbye. It shows respect for yourself and the other person.

Be Direct Look the other person in the eye. Don’t allow the handshake to linger too long, but you can show an extra bit of sincerity by holding their hand a second longer after the last pump.

This entry was posted on June 6, 2008 at 5:24 pm and is filed under Advice.

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3 Responses to “What Your Handshake Says about You!”

  1. Jacqueline Whitmore Says:

    June 7, 2008 at 2:10 pm

    Hello Dr. Lill,

    Love your blog! Thanks for posting my handshaking tips to your fans. If they want more etiquette advice, they can subscribe to my free e-newsletter by visiting my website at http://www.etiquetteexpert.com. Thanks again!

    Reply
  2. Dr. Lill Says:

    June 17, 2008 at 10:31 am

    Thanks Jacqueline! I will visit your site for sure!

    Reply
  3. Im_a_Believer Says:

    June 21, 2008 at 5:09 pm

    Wow, U know what? I don’t even know how to shake hands! Reading this brought on a degree of embarrassment. But I’m a woman anyways….does that help??? LOL!

    Reply

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