INFLUENCE

July 13, 2008
Each of us influences the life of a child. 
…children do as you do, not as you say.  

WHEN YOU THOUGHT I WASN’T LOOKING
When you thought I wasn’t looking I saw you hang my 
first painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately
 
wanted to paint another one.   

  
When you thought I wasn’t looking I saw you feed a 
stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind  
to animals. 

  
When you thought I wasn’t looking I saw you make my 
favorite cake for me, and I learned that the little 
things can be the special things in life.
 

  
When you thought I wasn’t looking I heard you say a 
prayer, and I knew that there is a God I could always 
talk to, and I learned to trust in Him.
 

   
When you thought I wasn’t looking I saw you make a 
meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I
 
learned that we all have to help take care of each 
other. 

  
When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you give of 
your time and money to help people who had nothing, 
and I learned that those who have something should
 
give to those who don’t. 

  
When you thought I wasn’t looking I saw you take care 
of our house and everyone in it, and I learned we have 
to take care of what we are given. 

  
When you thought I wasn’t looking I saw how you 
handled your responsibilities, even when you didn’t 
feel good, and I learned that I would have to be
 
responsible when I grow up. 

  
When you thought I wasn’t looking I saw tears come 
from your eyes, and I learned that sometimes things 
hurt, but it’s all right to cry. 

  
When you thought I wasn’t looking I saw that you 
cared, and I wanted to be everything that I could be. 

  
When you thought I wasn’t looking I learned most of 
life’s lessons that I need to know to be a good and
 
productive person when I grow up. 

  
When you thought I wasn’t looking I looked at you and 
wanted to say, Thanks for all the things I saw when 
you thought I wasn’t looking.’ 

 


 

 

Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak 
kindly.  Leave the rest to God.   

 

 

 

 

3 Responses to “INFLUENCE”

  1. Betsy Says:

    Dr. Lill, I will definitely be sharing this with my parents! Thanks for posting!

  2. Samantha Says:

    Aww, sweet Eli!

  3. Linda A. Says:

    Adorable photograph of Eli! That was a fun outing–having him take us on a guided tour of the Botanical Gardens! We need to do it again soon!

    Love your inspirational piece, too. I hope most of that was true at our house . . .I still feel guilty about the cake thing . . .(LOL!) Maybe I’ll meet that standard as a grandmother one day! Love, Mommy


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